Wow, I’m tired

by Tracy

I’m beginning to understand why I don’t usually blog every day. There is too much other stuff to do! Today one of my kids had to get some dental work done and there was a lot of running around so I’m a bit pooped.

Something interesting happened at Walgreens while we were waiting to pick up his prescription for pain medication. It was very busy at the pharmacy and there was quite a line. A man behind me was quite irritated and telling everyone that Walgreens should hire some more people to help us, that it was bullshit, and so on in a similar vein. It was a bit stressful listening to him rant so instead I chatted quietly with my son about his day.

A manger walked by and he grabbed him by the arm to demand that he get us all taken care of faster. Now, I wasn’t thrilled to be waiting but it did seem like everyone was doing the best they could and I remember from my days waiting tables how much I hated being grabbed by a customer so I felt the man was completely out of line. The manager told the guy that he was already on his way back there to help and so he did and soon it was our turn to be helped.

It’s not really a big thing but I made it a point to thank the tech who helped us and let her know how much I appreciated their help in getting the medicine for my son because he’d had a very rough day and having the pain relief would help him get a good night’s sleep. She smiled and said she was glad to help. It could be my imagination, but it did seem like that positive interaction did lift the mood in that corner of the store just a bit.

I’m not sharing this to toot my own horn, because as I said it was a very small thing and the truth is I am usually a very impatient person. It just struck me that every day we’re all making lot of little choices that can either help others and ourselves feel better or make us all feel worse.

So tomorrow my goal will be to remind myself that I have a lot of power to help myself and others feel better and use it.

But first I will accomplish my goal of getting some sleep.

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  • http://www.kimwoodbridge.com Kim Woodbridge

    I'm pooped today too but I don't have a good reason. Thursday is usually my day to get tons done because the kid is with her Dad.

    People like the man behind you in line make things so much worse than they need to be. And I think being positive and kind like you were can make a big difference.

    Although when people are sighing and grumbling behind me in line I tend to just go slower ;-)

  • http://www.ihatemymessageboard.com/ Tracy O'Connor

    Ha! You reminded me that for some reason today I got honked at twice
    for taking my time turning. The thing is a minivan packed with
    carseats doesn't have the best visibility so I do tend to be cautious
    and if that means somebody waits an extra minute so I can be sure I'm
    clear, so be it.

  • junkdrawer

    You're absolutely right. Sometimes the smallest gesture means the world to someone. I'm sure the tech appreciated it. Hope your little boy is feeling better! (And I hope you got some sleep).

  • http://idothings.info JD at I Do Things

    I can be the angriest, most resentful, most inwardly complaining grouch in a line, but as soon as someone starts vocalizing THEIR complaints? All my anger and hatred shoot darts at that person. It's hard not to feel impatient and grumbly when you have to wait and wait, but it's not the clerk's fault. I'm glad you made the extra effort to brighten their day — and hopefully show everyone else in line how real human beings act.

  • http://www.ihatemymessageboard.com/ Tracy O'Connor

    Thanks Kathy! You're right, the small gestures do mean a lot and I think they also help the giver, too. It shifts your mood from one of irritation and impatience to one of gratitude and patience.

  • http://www.ihatemymessageboard.com/ Tracy O'Connor

    Hi JD! I get the need to vent, I really do, but in a situation like that grumbling and whining doesn't do anything but make things worse.

  • http://www.redheadranting.com/ redheadranting

    I wonder if there isn't something like the moon or weather at play here. It seems as if everyone is grumpy. Not only in real life but online as well. I've noticed people leaving comments have been short and short sighted. Saying things that would be otherwise considered rude but probably not meaning to be that way.

    Our Walgreens gets backed up too and there is usually someone who grumbles about it. It only says something about them and it probably unites all the other people waiting in line who may then be compelled to do exactly what you did.

    Anyway, it's Friday now. Yay! Everybody relax, and take it easy.

  • http://www.shoot-me-now.com Katherine

    I always try and smile at people behind the counter and ask how their day is. It is such a hard job – working with the public day in and day out. So glad you were able to lift the spirits of those employees – you know it made their day!

  • Alisa Bowman

    This blogathon is darn near killing me, too. I woke up this morning and pledged to quit. But maybe I can stick it out thru the weekend.

    I think you did a great thing. It's always a good reminder that a little kindness can completely change a situation. In the end, you both have a better interaction. The angry arm grabbing guy only succeeded in aligning everyone in the line against him.

  • http://www.ihatemymessageboard.com/ Tracy O'Connor

    Thanks Alisa! I know, I thought about just throwing in the towel, too but it's halfway done, so might as well see it through to the end.

  • Judith

    Even though Thank You are two very small words, so many people never express or use them. You did the right thing by showing your son how grateful you were for the help at the pharmacy. I suppose the raging Twit behind you didn't get the point — rudeness will not get you through the line any faster !! Thanks for sharing !!

  • http://www.ihatemymessageboard.com/ Tracy O'Connor

    It's a good lesson for me to remember, sometimes I can get impatient and just simmer and stew but it's never once done anything for me but get my blood pressure up!

  • http://www.ihatemymessageboard.com/ Tracy O'Connor

    It's a good lesson for me to remember, sometimes I can get impatient and just simmer and stew but it's never once done anything for me but get my blood pressure up!

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